Leaving domestic abuse

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If someone has abused you and you don't feel safe in your home, you should plan to leave if possible.

PUT YOUR SAFETY FIRST: Make sure you have a safety plan in place even if you're not planning to leave straight away. Try to leave while the perpetrator is not at home, so s/he can't try to stop you. If possible, arrange a place to stay before you leave and get advice about custody if you have any children.

If you have to leave in an emergency because your partner has assaulted you, call the police. They may be able to arrest her/him, which will give you some time to leave.

Help from the council

If you have had to leave your home due to domestic violence and you have nowhere to go, you can get help from the council.

Women's refuges

Women may be able to get a place in a refuge if they have to leave home because of violence or threats.

Finances in violent relationships

What are the options if you are reluctant to leave a violent partner because you can't afford to support yourself?

Staying safe after leaving

If you have left due to domestic violence, you can take steps to protect yourself from any further violence or harassment. This page gives advice on what you can do.

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