Family problems and leaving home
Leaving home is a big step, but moving out is easier if you make some plans first.
When you can leave home
Once you’re over 16, you can choose to leave home if you want to.
Don’t rush out the door – living on your own can be really challenging. It can also be more difficult to get a place of your own before you’re 18.
If you’re under 16 and can no longer live at home, speak to someone who can help. You could contact Childline about any problems you’re having with your parents or carers.
Your parents can’t legally tell you to leave home until your 16th birthday.
If you have to leave
If things have got so bad that you can’t stay at home, decide where you’re going to live and how you’ll support yourself before you leave.
Get help to stay at home
You might be able to get support to help you stay at home. Contact social services at your local council about finding a mediator. This is an independent person who encourages you and your family to talk through your problems.
If you’re being asked to leave because of money worries, your family might be able to get short-term financial help from a local hardship fund or welfare assistance scheme.
Sort out your finances
If you are under 18 years old, there are restrictions on getting some benefits, including universal credit.
Use EntitledTo's benefits calculator to see what you could be eligible for.
If you need help with the costs of finding somewhere to live – such as money for a tenancy deposit – check if there’s a rent deposit, rent guarantee or bond scheme in your area.
Many private landlords will only rent to a young person if they have a guarantor. A guarantor is someone, usually a parent, who will have to pay the rent if you don’t.
Ask your friends and family if they have things like furniture and household items going spare. You could also try:
second-hand and charity shops
placing ads in shop windows
websites such as Gumtree and Freecycle
You could also contact the council or your local Citizens Advice for the details of any organisations that could help you with furniture.
Help if you’re homeless
16 and 17 year olds
Social services have the main responsibility for housing and support if you're homeless while under 18.
The housing department - sometimes called the homeless service or housing options - must also provide emergency housing if you approach them first.
Find out about homeless help if you’re 16 or 17.
18 or over
If you’re 18 or over, contact the housing department to make a homelessness application.
Even if you don’t qualify for emergency housing, you should get a personal housing plan with advice on how to find somewhere suitable.
Last updated: 17 January 2019